Standing up for what is right! How one kind comment changed an entire narrative of mean slurs to a stranger on the internet!
Western Cape, South Africa (31 July 2023) – In a world where spreading positivity and celebrating achievements should be the norm, the internet can sometimes become a breeding ground for negativity and unkindness.
A recent post featuring the talented South African artist, Jasmine Jagger, and her internationally acclaimed artwork displayed in London, sparked a disheartening wave of mean comments on the Good Things Guy Facebook page. While we were rejoicing over Jasmine’s success and the global recognition she brought to South African art, some people couldn’t resist expressing the nastiest sentiments. It was really quite bizarre that people would use their time, energy and effort to be mean to a stranger online, especially on a page dedicated to Good Things.
It got me thinking, why do some individuals think it’s okay to be mean to strangers or about strangers on the internet?
Well, several factors contribute to this behaviour.
- Anonymity: The internet allows individuals to remain anonymous, leading to a sense of detachment from real-world consequences, making it easier for some to be mean without accountability.
- Jealousy and Insecurity: Seeing strangers achieve success or recognition can trigger feelings of inadequacy in others, leading to mean-spirited comments as a way to cope with their own emotions.
- Lack of Empathy: The digital barrier can reduce empathy and compassion, making it harder for people to understand the impact of their words on others.
- Seeking Validation: Some individuals resort to meanness to gain attention or validation from peers, as negative remarks can often attract more reactions and responses.
- Group Mentality: When people witness others being mean online, they may feel encouraged to join in, creating a mob mentality that perpetuates negative behaviour.
The good news is that the power of kindness and support can swiftly turn the tide, and it did.
When some of the Good Things Guy community stood up against the negativity, the narrative changed, and people began congratulating Jasmine and condemning the mean posts. Some even took the commendable step of deleting their hurtful comments.
I openly also expressed my disappointment at the cruel behaviour, reminding everyone that behind every screen is a real person with feelings. It’s crucial to remember that the internet connects us all, and our words have the power to heal or hurt.
“Some of the comments on this post are so awful. Do you understand that she is a real human who will actually see what you’ve written? This is not what I created Good Things Guy for.”
The heartwarming positive comments in support of Jasmine’s art show us that kindness is the true essence of humanity. Art, like any form of expression, is subjective. While some may not connect with certain styles, it doesn’t justify being unkind or disrespectful. Jasmine herself displayed immense grace when faced with the mean comments, when I asked her how she felt after reading them, she explained that art is meant to provoke feelings, even if it’s anger or meanness. It’s a testament to her strength and passion as an artist that she remains unfazed by the negativity.
I think we need to remember that the internet is a powerful tool that can bring us closer together. Instead of using it to spread negativity, we should be kind and supportive, uplifting one another in our pursuits, passions, and creative expressions.
“If someone is doing something that they love, or even just enjoy a little, and they are not hurting anyone else by doing it, then just let them be. And maybe, If someone posts something and you don’t like it, learn to scroll on by. Don’t ever be the reason someone stops dancing.”
Let’s rather celebrate each other’s successes, appreciate art in all its forms, and embrace the diversity that makes our world a more beautiful place. Together, we can create a digital community filled with kindness, compassion, and a genuine appreciation for all the good things in life.
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