How one man saved the lives of "forgotten" children just by being kind.
Photo Cred: Edward Echwalu

This is how one man completely changed the lives of a group of children, who had been thrown away by society and left behind by government systems.

 

Western Cape, South Africa (20 February 2020) – Five years ago, when Jurgens van der Walt moved to Sedgefield, a small village in the Garden Route between Wilderness and Knysna, they thought that we had found paradise. But they very soon realised that there are several serious problems.

One of these is that there are groups of children who roam the streets instead of attending school.

One particular group of kids aged between 8 and 14 years of age is known by all the security companies and the police. Their days consist of begging, stealing, smoking weed and vandalising municipal property, all the while trying to stay alive and protect themselves and their belongings from other groups.

“Some years ago I approached the authorities about these children, but the councillor for our area said there wasn’t much we could do. There is no money allocated to address this problem and no one to assist the kids. Over the years, I had some unpleasant experiences with this group. I saw them throwing stones at lamp-posts totally destroying the streetlights. When I approached them, they laughed and swore at me and made signs to show that they would cut my throat.”

By mid-2019, the community was becoming really fed up with these children. Basically, people were just waiting for them to turn 18 so they could be jailed. But Jurgens and his wife, Karen, were determined to find a way to help these children, knowing full well that the government would not assist them.

Sedgefield hosts a major food, arts and crafts market on Saturday mornings. About five months ago, the children themselves gave him an idea of how to help them.

They were dancing and singing and begging for money at the market in their dirty clothes. But the security guards chased them away, concerned that they would steal and vandalise. The idea came to Jurgens that if he could teach these children how to perform and dress them as a group; it might change their attitude and the attitude of people towards them. They would then be able to perform at the market. The passionate South African phoned a few people and asked them whether they would be willing to help.

At first, the children didn’t want to speak to him because of previous encounters. But eventually, Jurgens got to speak to two of them and arranged a time to talk to the whole group.

He made a deal with them that they would attend dance and singing classes twice a week; and that they would also stop harassing people, begging, and vandalising property.

“My main focus was to get them back to school since most of them had been expelled in previous months or years. They all said they wanted to go back. With donations from the community, we got outfits for them to perform in. We arranged with charity Slow Meals for them to receive a cooked meal on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, they had practice sessions, and their meals were sponsored by volunteers from the community.”

On their first Saturday performance, the “Top Shots” made a fair amount of money.

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Photo Cred: Jurgens van der Walt

They gave each member R50 pocket money and banked the rest of their money with a registered NPO, Hephzibah Solutions, that worked with some of the children on a government programme called “Youth in Conflict with the Law”. They also arranged drug counselling sessions and support.

“After the first month, we told the community on our Facebook page (Sedgefield Locals) what we had already achieved. We received some donations from the community, and the most wonderful thing happened … the attitudes of the children and the community towards each other changed.”

On the next Saturday busking at the market, they collected even more. The children made enough money that day, and since then, to pay for their own uniforms and food when it is not sponsored.

In January the kids got together and asked Jurgens to help them get back into school.

“I couldn’t believe my ears. We took them to Pep, and they bought their school uniforms with their own money that they had worked for.”

Some of the parents could not go to school with them, so Jurgens met them at the school to help them get enrolled.

“They looked and felt great. We all sat in the reception, waiting to find out what would happen next. I was called in to see the principal who told me that the kids were not welcome in their school. At first, I was really disappointed and unhappy with her decision. But after she explained what the children had done previously at the school, I understood her concerns.

Some of them haven’t attended school in three years. How on earth does that happen!?

They would have to put a 14-year-old streetwise child in the same class as an innocent 10-year-old. Not to mention their history of vandalism and drug abuse. The children were very disappointed when I told them.”

As a last resort, the principal set up a meeting with all the teachers. This meeting made it clear that taking in the kids would jeopardise the chances of the other 600 learners. The school is already overcrowded with more than 50 children in a classroom.

This means they are stuck. But Jurgens has an idea to find or build a workshop. A new education system to help these kids become the leaders of tomorrow.

“In Sedgefield, we have lots of young at heart, retired engineers, teachers and social workers to teach these children, and other children like them, basic skills and get them up to a level so that they can re-enter normal classes or pursue a trade.”

In the meantime, they have decided to contact some homeschooling facilitators. The CEO of a reputable distance education institution called Jurgens the next day and offered to sponsor these children with learning material.

“We must now evaluate them to see on what level they really are. We got hold of the Western Cape Education Support Services and met a team of very enthusiastic Psychologists that will do the assessments.”

Jurgens is in the process to get the necessary permissions and will keep us all informed with any updates.

But this what Active Citizenship looks like – stepping in when others won’t. Getting your hands dirty and helping people along the way. We rise by lifting others, and thanks to Jurgens and the community of Sedgefield, a few young forgotten children are on their way to the top!


Sources: Jurgens van der Walt
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