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Robbie Gay is a child with a heart of gold, after losing his beloved dog, he shared a beautiful insight into why he loves adopting older dogs from the shelter.

 

Global (05 October 2020) – Maria and Charles Gay adopted Robbie in July of 2019. He had been in the foster system for some time after being removed from a situation where he was abused and neglected. Maria and Charles were so happy to welcome him into their family but the never dreamed just how wonderful he would make their home.

Robbie filled the home with love almost at once. He shared with the Gay’s, a passion for adopting animals and so the family adopted a senior dog named Buffy.

Maria shared a story about the day they had to put Buffy to sleep and it went viral. Robbie’s reaction to putting Buffy to sleep is incredibly heartwarming and makes you really see adopting older dogs in a whole new light.

“Well, today didn’t go as we hoped but it’s in the hardest of times we learn the best lessons and feel the most gratitude.

Buffy was scheduled to have her teeth cleaned and removed today but Dr Mac had a gut feeling she needed to look at some lab work before putting her under anaesthesia. She was right; Buffy showed signs of advanced kidney failure so anaesthesia was not an option and as a family, we decided that the kindest and most loving thing to do would be to let her go before she lost her will to live and stopped eating and drinking.

I wouldn’t have dreamed of leaving Robbie out of this decision or not allowing him to be part of the entire process so I immediately went and picked him up from school. On the way there he told me he wanted to be the one to hold her when she went to heaven. And of course, I gave him that honour. On the way home I told him how proud I was of him for understanding the importance of caring for old animals and helping to make sure they never ever suffer.

This is what he said… (And for those of you who don’t know, Robbie was adopted from the foster care system after years of severe abuse and neglect.)

“I know how it feels not to be loved or cared for and I don’t want any animal of mine to ever feel that way. It’s only sad for us when they go to heaven. It’s a happy day for them. Thank you for being proud of me. Are you ok, Mom?”

From the mouths of babes.

(As our story is being shared more and more I feel like I need to add a little more context and also give you a deeper glimpse into the heart of my son. We adopt senior dogs. Robbie LOVES adopting senior dogs. He is sadly aware the longer a child remains in foster care the less likely they are to be adopted. He told me once “if all you guys had wanted was a baby, you would have never gotten me.” He relates to our “old people” (that’s what we call our senior dogs) in much the same way.

He has also reminded me on several occasions that it doesn’t matter how long you have something for how much you love it. I asked him what he meant and he said “well you’ve only known me for two years but you love me like it’s been forever.” Yes, my son is the coolest.)”

Robbie still struggles with his story, trying to understand his younger years and why he went through such a traumatic ordeal but he finds great peace in rescuing old dogs. Maria hopes his story will inspire others to adopt older dogs (and children).

Since the lockdown, Robbie has been working hard to encourage his community to adopt all the animals at his local shelter. He is trying to completely empty it. As more people hear his beautiful story, more of the animals are being adopted. In one day, they were able to rehome 25 animals! Just WOW!


Sources: Facebook
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