When her son faced a life-threatening crisis that began with an emergency surgery, Sophia Nel’s world came to an unexpected standstill. Chris, a breadwinner and beloved car guard from Manaba, is currently fighting to return to good health. In response, his family is rallying the community for support to help them navigate this challenging ordeal.
Margate, South Africa (20 October 2025) – Sophia Nel’s world came to an unexpected standstill when her son faced a life-threatening crisis that began with an emergency surgery for a Dead Bowel.
Just as the family dared to breathe a sigh of relief after his procedure, Chris’s ordeal was followed by another devastating complication when his surgical wound opened up, forcing him back to the hospital.
Chris, a PSiRA-registered car guard, has been fighting back and is healing well with a specialised VAC (Wound Management System) under the care of a wonderful nurse named Precious. His discharge has been postponed to ensure a full recovery; however also presents circumstances that leave his loved ones in a hard place financially.
“Our struggle is now logistical and financial: As a SASSA pensioner, I am raising funds to cover the essential transport to the hospital for his specialised dressing changes, his protein-rich nutritional support for healing, and the urgent medical costs for our diabetic dog, Rambo,” shares concerned mom, Sophia.

Even when he is discharged from the hospital, Chris will still require 4 to 8 weeks of complete rest. That’s weeks of no work and thereby no income for his household or the family’s diabetic dog, whose care is a small part of Chris’s financial need.

“Being in the hospital for so long is hard for Chris, as he is always used to being active. We always take him safe purified water (the nurses advise against the tap water for him), cool drinks you can mix with water, and sometimes healthy snacks like health bars, milk or cookies to supplement his diet when we can afford it,” Sophia adds.
“If you would like to help and bring a small moment of comfort to Chris, we would be incredibly grateful for any donation of these small items or anything you can afford. We know he will appreciate it so much as well.”
Donated items (marked ‘For Chris Nel’) can be dropped off at Luckys in Margate on weekdays from 8 am to 5 pm. Request the front desk to contact Rudi Nel to collect it.
The family holds on to the hope that their application for Chris’s disability grant will be approved and afford them some stability during this difficult time. In their fierce dedication to bring Chris home after near-fatal complications and support his healing, they have also launched a BackaBuddy crowdfunding campaign.
“Thank you for the unwavering prayers and support from everyone so far. You’ve been a great blessing to us. Every act of kindness helps him heal,” sincerely thanks, Sophia.
Sources: Sophia Nel
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Dear Nothando and The Good Things Guy Team,
Thank you so much—we are absolutely overwhelmed and so grateful that you published Chris’s story. It was beautifully written! 🤗💖
I just wanted to share one very small clarification for your records: Chris was a car guard at My Spar Manaba (in Uvongo/Manaba), not Port Shepstone.
The rest of the article is spot-on and perfect. We are so appreciative of your kindness and support.
Thank you again for everything.
Warm regards,
Sophia Nel
Dear Nothando and the Good Things Guy Team,
Huge Thanks for the Article & Fixing the Detail 🙏
I just wanted to say thank you again.
We noticed you updated the article with the small clarification (about My Spar Manaba) and we are so appreciative of your efficiency and commitment to accuracy. 🙌
More importantly, the article is absolutely beautiful and is already making a huge difference to Chris’s campaign. We are truly overwhelmed by your kindness and support during this difficult time. 🙏
We can’t thank you enough for sharing his story. 💖
Warm regards,
Sophia Nel