It was Jessica Rudeen’s first flight with both her toddler and baby, she was already stressed when both kids started screaming. Thankfully the man seated next to her offered his kindness.
Jessica Rudeen was having a tough time at the airport. She was travelling with her toddler and 4-month-old. She was planning on feeding her son before they boarded the plane but was unable to. So her hungry baby threw a fit when she got on the plane, triggering a reaction from her toddler, Caroline.
The moment was chaos but then, the man sitting in the seat next to Jessica took the baby from her so she could soothe Caroline and then he entertained Caroline so that the infant could be fed.
“My first flights with an infant and a toddler started out with a little panic when we boarded the plane. My 4-month-old was screaming his head off because, due to a series of unexpected events, I was unable to nurse him before boarding the plane. My 3-year-old, who was excited before boarding the plane, lost her nerve and began screaming and kicking “I want to get off the plane! I don’t want to go!” I honestly thought we’d get kicked off the plane. So with two kids losing their minds, I was desperately trying to calm the situation.”
“This man reached for the baby and held him while I forced a seatbelt on Caroline, got her tablet and started her movie. Once she was settled and relatively calmed, he distracted her so that I could feed Alexander. Finally, while we were taxiing, the back of the plane no longer had screams.”
The man, who is named Todd, sat with Caroline the entire flight and engaged with her. He was so sweet and Caroline was obsessed with him.
“During the flight, he coloured and watched a movie with Caroline, he engaged in conversation and showed her all the things outside. By the end of the flight, he was Caroline’s best friend. I’m not sure if he caught the kiss she landed on his shoulder while they were looking out the window.”
Todd happened to be heading to the same destination as Jessica so he navigated the family to their connecting flight and even swapped seats with another person so he could stay and help Jessica with the children on the next flight.
“Amazingly, we had the same connection in Charlotte to Wilmington, a connection he navigates frequently for work. He helped us get off the plane and led us to the next gate with Caroline in hand. If that wasn’t enough, he changed his seat on the next flight to sit in our row to help us.”
Jessica posted the story on social media in the hopes that she could reconnect with Todd. It worked and someone put her in contact with Todd’s wife. Apparently, someone had paid her the same kindness years before and so Todd paid that kindness forward to Jessica.
“This guy, Todd, showed me kindness and compassion that I’ve never known from another person. His wife, he said, had a similar experience when their two boys were young and a stranger showed her the same kindness. I am blown away by God’s hand in this because we could have been placed next to anyone, but we were seated next to one of the nicest men I have ever met in my life.”
She plans to meet up with the family soonest. Take a look at the heartwarming pictures below.


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