Penny very nearly didn’t write to us. The hero of her story is her son, and he is not a man who enjoys a fuss. But she decided that what he did for someone who was, at the start, a complete stranger was too heartwarming to keep to herself. So here it is, with apologies to Jamie.
Cape Town, South Africa (29 September 2026) – It all begins in Ottery, in the Cape Town suburb where the Stain family’s business is based. One day, an elderly gentleman named Hilton Felix came walking up with a batch of sandwiches to sell. They tried what he had on offer, and the rest was history.
“After tasting his wares we became regular clients and purchased the most delicious and freshly made sandwiches,” Penny says.
Hilton became part of the rhythm of their working week. The family’s beloved sandwich man. Then, one day, he just stopped coming.
“Then came a time when our Sandwich guy, as we fondly nicknamed, stopped coming around.”
The family missed his sandwiches. Penny’s husband, Donovan, soon picked up the phone. That’s when they learned Hilton was ill and unable to drive to make his deliveries.
Hilton earns his living on the road, so it was a double blow. Not only was he sick, but there was financial worry on top of it. As entrepreneurs themselves, Donovan and their son Jamie understood exactly how heavy that kind of stress can become, and how it can slow the recovery you need.
So an offer was made, and it was more than a kind word. Someone would drive.
After Donovan talked it over with their son, Penny says, “Jamie took it upon himself to drive our Sandwich guy around every day for three weeks to his customers.”
Jamie, then 25, had his own business and his own workload to keep on top of. He fitted Hilton’s route around it, day after day.
“In this time he did not mention a word about doing this to anyone and also did not ask to be compensated, in any way, he just quietly went about lending a helping hand.”
Even his own mother had no idea. Penny only found out by accident, when she overheard Donovan asking Jamie how his workload was recently, and whether he’d be able to ‘help the Sandwich man again’. It had been raining hard that week, and Hilton had discovered his car’s windscreen wipers weren’t working, which is what prompted the call to the family in the first place.
“After questioning my husband, I was told the story of how he, Jamie, had been doing this and keeping up with his work load for three weeks prior.”
Three weeks and not a single word about the kindness being kept under wraps.
By then, Hilton had recovered. And he has since shared that he believes he got better faster because the weight had been lifted by Jamie. With his customers being looked after, he wasn’t lying awake worrying about his livelihood.
“Hilton has recovered health wise and has mentioned that he managed to get better quicker as the stress of keeping his small business going was alleviated by Jamie, our then 25-year-old son who gave him, who was a stranger, a much needed helping hand.”
There’s a word for what Jamie did, and it’s one we lean on a lot at Good Things Guy! Ubuntu. I am because we are. The idea that our wellbeing is knotted up with everyone else’s, and that when a neighbour is struggling, it isn’t only their problem to carry.
Jamie’s kindness took hold while running his own business, for someone who wasn’t family, wasn’t a friend and, as Penny puts it, was a stranger.
Stories like this deserve to be told because the people at the centre of them will never tell them themselves. Kindness like this happens all the time, in secret, in streets and suburbs all over the country. We just don’t always get to hear about it.
So thank you, Penny, for writing in. And Jamie, we hope you’ll forgive us for making a fuss anyway.


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